When it comes to potty training, most parents go in with a mix of hope, nerves, and a lot of Google searches. You’ve probably heard all the basics—wait for signs of readiness, get a little potty, maybe buy some stickers. But there are a few things about potty training that no one really tells you…until you’re in it.
Let’s break down 3 things you didn’t know about potty training (but definitely should):
1. You Don’t Know How Your Child Will React Until You Take the Diaper Off
You can read all the books and take all the courses (hopefully mine 😉), but nothing gives you more insight than that first diaper-free day. Some kids surprise you and take to it quickly. Others freeze, melt down, or pretend they’ve never heard of a potty in their life.
That’s totally normal.
The truth is, the real learning starts when the diaper comes off and your child feels what it’s like to go without it. Their reaction will guide your next steps—and the only way to know is to try.
2. Potty Training Isn’t Just About Pee and Poop
It’s actually a huge emotional milestone. For your child, using the potty is about independence, body awareness, and sometimes even control. For you, it’s about learning to step back and trust your child in a new way.
That’s why patience, encouragement, and a low-pressure vibe matter way more than perfection. Your child isn’t just learning a new skill—they’re growing up right in front of you.
3. You Don’t Have to “Wait Until They’re Ready” Forever
Yes, readiness is important. But many parents take that advice to mean never start until your child begs for the potty. The truth? Sometimes kids need a gentle nudge.
With the right support, environment, and plan, you can help create the conditions for readiness. Think of potty training as a team effort—one that you can lead with confidence.
Ready to Get Started?
If you’re curious about when and how to take that diaper off, my Digital Potty Training Course walks you through the entire process—prep, day one, setbacks, daycare transitions, and more.
And if you’re feeling nervous (or totally overwhelmed), I offer 1:1 consultations where we build a personalized potty plan that works for your child.
Let’s ditch diapers together—and laugh a little along the way.
