Have you ever found yourself reminiscing about the adorable first steps your baby took, only to be snapped back into reality by the voice of your child demanding dinner? Such is the bitter-sweet journey of motherhood.
In a recent episode of the Burnt Pancakes podcast, I invited on my guest Jocelyn to candidly share our experiences as we navigate through the joys, challenges, and inevitable transitions that come with motherhood.
Transitioning from the Baby to Middle Mom Stage Jocelyn and I open up about our personal journey from being moms to babies and toddlers, to the stage of being ‘middle moms’. We fondly recall the close bond formed during those early years, the delight in watching our children grow, and the excitement of seeing our little ones develop into unique individuals.
However, we also delve into the challenges of this transition, discussing the physical toll of pregnancy and childbirth, and the relief of finally being able to care for themselves again.
Life Postpartum: Hair Loss, School Life, and a Quiet House
As we venture into the topic of our postpartum journey, we share the trials we faced – the rush of school life, the strange silence that fills the house when the kids are away, and even their battles with hair loss. We explore how our lives have drastically changed since becoming mothers and reminisce about the days before kids when we thought they were busy.
Discussing Sensitive Topics: Birth and Puberty
In our conversation, Jocelyn and I do not shy away from discussing sensitive subjects. We delve into how we’ve navigated conversations about birth and puberty with our children, as well as the unique challenges that come with raising daughters. Through all these discussions, the underlying theme remains the same – cherishing every moment of motherhood, from the heart-melting first steps to the nerve-wracking teenage years.
Returning to Old Hobbies and Embracing New Ones
As we transition into the middle mom stage, Jocelyn and I find themselves rediscovering old hobbies and even embracing new ones. We talk about the satisfaction of having time to themselves again, and the joy of finally being able to do things they love, such as reading and baking.
Looking Ahead: Preteens and Teens
As they look ahead to the teenage years, both of us expressed a mixture of excitement and apprehension. However, we reassure each other and the listeners that this is just another phase of the beautiful journey of motherhood that we’ll navigate together.
This podcast episode is a heartwarming and relatable discussion that offers solace, support, and even a good chuckle to all mothers out there. Whether you’re a new mom, a middle mom, or somewhere in between, join Jocelyn and I on this journey and find comfort in our shared stories of motherhood.
As the saying goes, “Motherhood is a choice you make every day to put someone else’s happiness and well-being ahead of your own”.
This episode beautifully encapsulates the essence of this saying and leaves listeners with a deeper appreciation for the wonderful journey that is motherhood. Remember, it all starts in a quiet corner of a hushed nursery, but it transforms into a lifetime of love, growth, and learning.
Listen to the full podcast episode and join us on our journey through the stages of motherhood.
